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Mistakes men make, when they search for a wife in Russia OR “How to find the perfect lady?”

You are probably looking for instructions, that can protect you from all kinds of mistakes and lead you straight to your beloved in a matter of minutes? Well, unfortunately, there is no such thing in the whole world. And still our experience shows, that many of you are making similar mistakes in communication with Russian girls, and we’re happy to share this precious information with you. We will tell you the most common stories with our solutions and a good piece of advice (all names are changed).

1. One of the early fans of our site was a man named “Harry”. When he first entered this site, he was astonished by photos of inconceivably pretty Russian women. But Lena was the most gorgeous girl he could ever think of. He started to write her letters full of warmth and love, he was trying to persuade her, that she is the woman of his dream. But there was no result at all! His frustration grew from day to day and there was nothing he could do about it. Harry always thought that a compliment is a springboard to success, and it turned out that it was never the main point to Lena. So he left his dream forever…

You may also forget about your dreams, UNLESS you follow our first and the most important advice. Women, who write to our site aren’t just beautiful Russian ladies – they are personalities! Harry didn’t even read about her character, hobbies, her life, he only saw her photo and made a decision instead of her. If you want to build good relationships with someone, you’ll need to know her well.

You need a person to understand you, a person to uphold your opinion on some essential topics. We are interested in you and your happiness (otherwise, we wouldn’t make a site like this), that is why, if you get into a situation like Harry’s one, try to get to know her closer, imagine your future relations and decide if it fits you or not.

2. Before writing a letter, think of your demands very carefully. Think of your perfect lady. How does she look like? Is she energetic or calm, highly intelligent or average? Is she aimed for creating a family or just a girl, looking for a romance? Now tell about yourself, and about your perfect lady, so that those, who don’t meet your special demands don’t disturb you. Don’t try to use some stereotypes, listen to yourself! Once we received a very comic letter. “Tom” wanted to find a girl of his dreams.

We don’t know if it was for serious or not, but he wrote something like this: “I want to find a girl of my dreams. I will be a reliable man for her, but she has to be the most gorgeous Russian girl, I ever saw in my life, she has to be a perfect housewife, that is always ready to cook my favorite dishes. She has to be very active, lead a sports way of life and of course have a good education, because I like to talk to intelligent people.

I also want her to be really passionate and obedient with me. I can’t wait to receive your letter, my darling. Yours faithfully, Tommy)))” As you might guess this optimistic Tommy is still waiting… But you can find your love, if you’re self-assured and you know what you want.

3. Since you know what you want, look for it, but be so kind not to lie to women whom you don’t need. Be honest and don’t promise anything to ladies, if you’re not interested in them. People, who act like this are often entrapped by ones, behaving in the same way! This is not even an advice, this is a rule. There was one funny case with a sad ending. “Endy” likes to joke with women, he is a very good guy, but it’s his weakness. He chose about 7 pretty single Russian girls and created a perfect image for each of them. He was quite happy with this, when he met Alina.

“Oh, that girl makes me crazy! ” he thought. Alina had luxurious appearance, she was a green-eyed angel of 18, and her one and only wish was to meet Endy. So he bought her a magnificent golden bracelet and went to Moscow. They made an appointment at one cozy café in the center of the city. Everything seemed to be OK, when a strange lady entered the hall and sat in front of him. “Hey there, I’m Alina, a little different from the photos, but you know those photographers. My Valik is a magician!.....”. Endy couldn’t say a word, the biggest love of his life turned to be a joke. So, please, don’t make this sad ending yours.

4. Make sure that the woman you like knows a lot about you, send her good photos, because women don’t like “blind” communication.

They have the same right, that you do, to know your appearance and judge you not only by your compliments. You need to realize, that the woman you talk to is completely real, try to behave as in the reality, so that they don’t get shocked one day.

5. And the last thing you should know is that, our site of dating Russian women gives you the unique opportunity to find the one you are really interested in. There are yang girls and mature women, women looking for husbands and those looking for dating, big city girls and peasant ones.

You are aware of the worst strategies used for meeting a lady, which means you know how to do it, and you know your motivation, so you know why you do it. A meeting online isn’t the best entertainment, because those pretty ladies are as real as you are, so be careful and follow these few steps on your way to marriage (dating, romance, friendship...).

Why do women register to the agencies? Why are they looking for a husband abroad?

Mostly the reason for Russian girls to register to the sites is to have more chances to find their life partner.

I think, it shows that a girl is really serious about this when she registers to several dating sites. (she can't know beforehand what site is good, what is not. ). She does not just wait, but she is actively searching by the means that are availabe to her.

For these women it does not matter if they will marry a Russian man or a Western, they just look for love.

2. It is easy to find a boyfriend in Russia, it is diffiuclt to find a husband there. For many women after 35 it is a problem. They can want to have a child, they want stability that marriage here gives, but men prefer to live together but not connect themselves by conjugal ties. Many men do not want to have children, especially the second child. It is an expensive pleasure now in Russia and the government helps families with children very little.

3. Many Russian men are not good fathers and it hurts women. They want to care together for their child, to love, to think. But men in Russia prefer to put all the care on women's shoulders.

American men are more caring to their children and not to only their children. A woman can hope that if she marries an American he will be a good father to her child and to their own one or two more children.

4. Life in European or American countries is more stable and predictable than in Russia. It is not the main reason but one of the reasons why Russian girls leave Russia. You get tired of unstability and unpredictability. You want to live and not to worry what you will live on in several years. The standard of living in Russia for many average people is less than in other developed countries.

5. Many women come to the agency after painful divorces. They were hurt and want to leave everything behind and just leave from the "white page". Feel that there will be a man who will love them and care for them, who will allow them to love in return.